The end?

Hello lads.

It’s been a while since my last post. My apologies that you haven’t had my ramblings in your in box, or is it inbox?

As the title suggests, I am questioning whether or not it is the end of my daygame journey. I have been writing on this theme for a couple of years now, and I have to say, now I think it is.

I am 9 months into a relationship with a girl that I really like, a lot. More importantly, she is crazy about me, I’m no relationship expert, but I think this is one of the if not, most important things for any successful relationship. I have no idea if that constitutes the L word, but that’s what it feels like. The thought of hurting her is horrible, and so I’ve stopped all forms of game – tinder is deleted, I don’t act on IOI’s and I don’t hit on birds in bars.

It’s easy being in a relationship in the winter months, I never really enjoyed winter daygame. I know some fellas excel in this department, and fair play to them, but let’s be honest, it’s not as nice as Summer when the birds are scantily clad and horny. The real test for me will be when Summer rolls around again. I’m based in Warsaw, and even in winter I see pretty girls every day. It’s still hard not opening them, and I know that the “what if?” feeling will never go away.

But in life you need to make choices. Do you want to be old and grey and live alone in shitty apartment with cats? Or do you want a partner and potentially your own offspring to add more purpose to your life? I have always wanted the latter.

And that’s the plan lads. I’m done for the time being, but I’m not an idiot, I’ve been in many failed relationships. If that happens then obviously i’ll be back. I have a very particular set of skills…

I probably won’t kill anyone though.

And these skills will not go away. What will, is my youth. Many fellas in the community say that age doesn’t matter. And to those I say Bull fucking shit. It does, as anything does in your overall social market value. You are simply delusional if you think otherwise. My advice to anyone getting into game, is to get out before you get consumed by your own ego, chasing the next rat bag. Realise when you are ahead, tell yourself well done, and walk off into the sunset.

I normally post a run down of my stats for the year, but they’re nothing to shout about this year, I did 200 sets and banged 9 girls from daygame and a few others from bars. But my heart wasn’t in it, I was just going through the motions.

I did a bit of coaching this year, and seeing the enthusiasm on my client’s faces and actions only reinforced this fact – “Roy, you don’t give a fuck any more, get out”, my wee brain would say to me. “What am I doing wrong here?” They would ask, I would tell them, they would understand and usually correct it. But my heart simply wasn’t in it, and as such I will be refraining from all coaching. If you’re interested in that type of thing I’d recommend Broody or Clown.

Good luck lads, maybe I will be back. But I hope not.