Last week I had my first 5 day coaching client, he’s given himself the pseudonym of Ging on twitter. It wasn’t 5 full days, Just 2-3 hours each day after work. And as I have mentioned on twitter, I was quite surprised by how much fun I had in the process. I always said that I would never do coaching because I would not be able to bare the sight of a perfectly good set going to waste. I don’t know if it’s because subconsciously I think I’ve banged enough women now, or if I like the act of teaching, but either way, I really enjoyed watching Ging improve day by day, I was cheering him on in set, every time he did something I taught him, I’d be like “Yes, that’s my boy!”… as I was stood nearby listening and getting funny looks from passers by. But enough rambling from me, here’s a few unedited words from Ging himself…
Review: Roy Walker Bootcamp
19 – 23 October (5 days), Warsaw
A short background about me: I come from a Slavic country and have lived most of my adult life in Germany. I started with daygame about 2.5 years ago and did it scarcely for half a year, before committing and doing it very seriously for another 6 months (including a weekend bootcamp with a different coach). I took 1.5 years off after, when the Covid pandemics started. I had also done night game for the past 4.5 years, with varying levels of intensity. I had slept with 34 girls so far (33 before the bootcamp).
I had first heard about Roy from a mutual friend, who used to go out with him for daygame a few years ago. He seemed to check all the boxes I was looking for in a coach:
- decently looking
- fun to hang out with
- traditionally successful in terms of education, career, money
- good at daygame (and actively practicing it)
We agreed to do 5 days training, every day in the afternoon.
The main goal of the training with Roy was to get over my approach anxiety. I did not have big expectations beyond that, as I had been doing game for a few years before and had also done a number of daygame approaches, having decent results.
Coaching with Roy was everything I expected it to be and more. Firstly, Roy is a very friendly person, with an Irish sense of humor, which helps a lot when you walk around for several hours in the cold early-winter Warsaw. I enjoyed his company and felt like he genuinely wanted me to succeed. He was also great for keeping up energy during the sessions and he shared with me a lot of advice about dates, travel, wings, and life in general.
The first main point of training was approach anxiety and the stop. We dedicated the first two days to it. Roy would push me to do most of the approaches and would also do a number himself to demonstrate his technique and his delivery of specific lines, stop, interaction – this was perhaps one of the best things in the coaching. He does what he teaches, and he can do demonstrations on demand. I felt we found a very good combination of demonstrations and me doing approaches, applying the learnings.
The main thing I got from his approaches was their incredible simplicity. Typically, the first few seconds of the interaction were structured as: open, observation, stack, …. When listening to Roy the girls typically started giggling at the observation (even is the observation was plain). I was listening on the phone and giggling as well. It was clear to me fast that this is what a good interaction with a woman should look like in daygame. This was one of the key takeaways of the bootcamp – that (day)game at its core is seduction, and that the girls don’t giggle when I talk to them, no matter how well I deliver the lines. I am really happy I got to see his energy in action and to some extent incorporate it into my own daygame – we worked on this a lot during our coaching, including strong front stop, eye contact, slowing down, etc..
After the first 2 days I had achieved my goal. I went out in the morning and did 3 approaches on my own. Even got one number. The approaches I felt were already better than any I had done before (and I still feel my previous approaches were not bad). There was a clear element of seduction. Girls could feel that it was more serious.
After the first part of the training, we worked on the rest of the interaction and solidifying the open. He gave me a lot of advice on stacking, conversation topics and general mindsets.
The second key takeaway of the bootcamp was to be unapologetic. I heard the “Stop saying sorry!” repeatedly. And “Own it!”. The third one was “Gotta put the balls on the line”. In essence owning who you are, what you are doing and being okay with it. This was the second big change to the way I conduct my interactions. It is now much more grounded and in line with what I want to say. Much more detached from the outcome as well. He pointed out several ticks I do subconsciously and am not aware of, which stray away from being unapologetic and are designed to make a girl (and/or others) like me. He also gave me advice on texting, where I was too long and trying too hard. He real-time corrected my texting when setting up dates and showed me his text conversations.
On the last day of the training, I talked to a girl in line for lunch – in the middle of one of the most popular lunch places in Warsaw. Right in the middle. And he did not ask me to do it – we were just grabbing lunch before the training. Had a short interaction, went for lunch with Roy, stood up in the end, walked to her table, chatted with her, and took her number. I did not care about anything around me, it was natural to do it and it felt just so liberating. This was the last day of the training and Roy asked me to take her on a date that night and go for an SDL (good for marketing, I guess 
). We ended up at her place that night, having sex, and met again the next day as well.
I feel like, having completed the training, I can confidently walk down the street, and upon seeing an attractive girl, walk up to her, open with confidence and start a seductive interaction. It feels much more empowering doing daygame this way and my results have been amazing. Moreover, I feel much more grounded and confident in general – it feels funny saying that in late 20s, but it feels like my personality has developed in only a week of working with Roy. By the end of the training my phone was also filled with numbers of very attractive girls, some of which I will genuinely regret not meeting, since I have left Warsaw already.
To conclude, I feel like Roy is the talk-the-talk, walk-the-walk type of instructor, who explains the techniques, has a deep understanding of the underlying principles, and can go out and demonstrate it all. With him you will experience the reality of a daygamer at the highest level, no bullshit, exactly the way he does it on his own. It was transformative for me and can only highly recommend it to anyone.
Happy to give a more detailed account over the phone or skype (ask Roy for my contact).
Thanks Ging, I’ll send you that 50 Euro later….If something like this sounds fun to you, get in touch through the contact form or DM me on Twitter. My movements for the rest of the year are still fluid, I’ll be in Warsaw for at least another week, haven’t decided where I’ll go after that.
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